People are often worried about offending people when they visit Morocco. I think this is a common fear when we travel somewhere new, especially if the culture is very different from what we're used to. Often times what might WE might think offends locals is actually not offensive at all. Truthfully very few Moroccan people would ever say anything or act offended if you made a slip. If however, you simply want to avoid that discomfort, I put together this list of “faux pas'” to avoid when you visit Morocco.
Ooops #1: Bargaining too Hard
I remember noticing tourists bargaining so hard on some purchases that it actually was insulting and impractical for the shop owners to sell at those prices. There is a culture of bargaining in Morocco and for those of us who come from countries where that does not exist, we can be confused by how it works.
It's also pretty common that sellers will set higher prices for tourists. Yes, you should bargain, it's part of the culture but do so with respect and understanding. You want to pay 100 dirham for a handmade leather bag? That's just rude. Bargaining in such a way is not clever. It's insulting.
Ooops #2: Being Overly Paranoid
I see a lot of tourists acting like they're always on the lookout for scams and being taken advantage of in every single interaction. Not everyone is out to get you! Often times people do genuinely just want to be nice.
For example I was recently on the train from Casablanca to Marrakech by myself with a suitcase, bag and purse. The gentlemen, who fit every stereotype of “the bad Muslim guy” on TV and in movies couldn't do enough to be kind. He helped me with my bags, checked if it was alright before he opened the window shade, and offered to share his lunch not only with me but with two other travelers nearby. Genuine Moroccan kindness and hospitality. It's a big faux pas to respond with suspicion to every small act of kindness and hospitality!
Ooops #3: Ramadan Assumptions
A lot of people plan their visit to Morocco during Ramadan – often times they have no idea it's Ramadan. Whether you decide to come during this month or not it's good to do a little research and find out what Ramadan is and what it means for your visit. You shouldn't assume that things will be business as usual. Many schedules change, activities are altered, things are closed, and people tend to be a little more on edge. Do due diligence before you come so that you are prepared.
Ooops #4: Being Annoyed by “the singing” at 5am
It's not singing, it's the call to prayer (adhan) and it happens 5 times a day; the first one is quite early. If you're staying in the medina of any city you're going to hear it. There is a mosque on almost every corner so it's unlikely you will find somewhere to stay that you won't hear the adhan – that's the point! Best advice? Embrace it! After a few days you probably won't even notice it.
Ooops #5: Too Much PDA
Moroccans are very loving – in private. It's very uncommon and frowned on to show a lot of affection in public. Holding hands in Morocco is fine. A hug here or there, a stolen kiss all fine in most situations. But, making out in public – absolutely not ok. You'll certainly get some clicking tongues and sideways looks. The same can be said for hands wandering anywhere on each other's body. The more rural you are the more frowned on public displays of affection are.
Best advice? Save your amore for behind closed doors. Want more info? I have a full post on PDA in Morocco.
Ooops #6: Taking Pictures of People, Palaces, and Police
I have been on the receiving end of snap happy tourists. You will see things that you may not have ever seen before. People DO dress differently, and maybe even act differently. It's never ok to take a picture of someone without their permission. This is especially true of women who are wearing a veil and men wearing beards. People who are more religious tend to not want photographs taken.
Taking Photographs (or not) in Marrakech
It's also really important for visitors to know it is not ok to take pictures of police officers, military personnel or palaces. Morocco is very serious when it comes to national security and these are major no-no's. If a police officer sees you take a picture of him/her don't be surprised if they come to you and request you immediately delete the image. If you're not sure you can take a picture, ask.
Ooops #7: Drones
Drones are illegal in Morocco. Period. Even small toy drones are illegal and the authorities are very serious. We recently had some guests who had brought a camera drone to take pictures. They were flying it and the police showed up immediately. The drone was taken and the man flying it was promptly escorted to the police station where he was held all day. They released him for the night, but held his passport so he would return the next day. He had to go to court, was heavily fined, and had the drone confiscated.
Ooops #8: Not Covering Up
Truth: You can where whatever you want in Morocco, there's no “Morocco dress code” – but that doesn't mean you should. You certainly do not need to dress like locals, nor should you, but be mindful of local norms. Women – booty shorts, cleavage bearing or crop tops and see through items are not a great idea.
If you do choose to dress more revealing please don't wear a scarf on your head. This is more disrespectful than simply wearing nothing. Men, wear a shirt and longer shorts; aside from young or teenage boys you will rarely see Moroccan men wearing a tank top or shorter, sport style shorts.
Not sure what to wear or pack? I've got a bunch of posts that can help!
Ooops #9: Expecting Everyone to Speak English
Moroccans speak a lot of languages. They're very gifted when it comes to this but you shouldn't assume everyone does speak English. Instead, ask! Arabic and French are spoken by almost everyone. Simply say;
Tkalem Ingles? – Arabic OR
Parlez vous anglais? – French
If they speak English they'll switch for you. If they don't, they'll say no and you can move on! One other little note speaking louder or enunciating doesn't help someone who doesn't speak English it just comes off as rude!
It also would be wrong to assume everyone speaks French (they don't!) One of the comments that I cringe most often when I hear is, “but you live in Morocco and you don't speak French?!” Yes, many people do speak French but Arabic and the Amazigh (Berber) languages are the languages spoken by most everyone. Want to learn more? Here are a few words that can help you get started!
Introductions and Useful Expressions in Moroccan Arabic (Darija)
10 Words You Should Know: Tashelheit
Ooops #10: Unclear (Sexual) Gender Relations
In Morocco it's really normal for two male friends to hold hands or two women friends to do the same. It has zero meaning sexually. It's really just a sign of friendship. Seeing two middle-aged male cops walking through an office building holding hands really changes ones perspective on gender relations!
It's important to realize that Morocco is a large country with over 30 million people. What is and isn't ok will vary a lot depending on where you are and the company you are with. I do hope that these “mistakes” are something you keep in mind when you visit but also be sure to take clues from the people around you or ask if you're unsure about anything!
Carola says
Apologies – in the email just posted I made an error in my last sentence. It should have read:
“When it feels appropriate to give a gift, what might be suitable as a gift from us reflecting our own culture and something which RESPECTS our neighbours’ culture”.
(ie ‘respects’ not ‘reflects’)
Amanda Mouttaki says
I think give as you feel comfortable and they will do the same. It will be a constant thing, because that’s just how the culture is. It doesn’t have to be something huge or something you always do but I would say not to expect it will stop. It’s VERY common to gift food – you might give them some baked cookies? You don’t have to always give something back right away as a thank you. Hope that helps a little. What a beautiful little friendship!
Carola Brown says
Hi, I was interested in reading your list of 10 mistakes people can make in Morocco and wonder if you can give advice on a matter of social etiquette. My husband and I, (both English by birth), live in Southern Spain and via their children, we have become reasonably friendly with a Moroccan family who are near neighbours. We sometimes show the children small kindnesses and in return have been given some gifts in return, including today a very generous portion of a delicious cous cous dish. What would be an appropriate way of showing our appreciation without embarking on a constant return of gifts between us? When it feels appropriate to give a gift, what might be suitable as a gift from us reflecting our own culture and something which reflects our neighbours’. Thanks for any advice you might give.
Pam says
Hi,
I think your post was so informative… especially for a first time traveler to Morocco.
I have a completely different question.
I have been researching Morocco, and I am very interested in glamming in the Sahara. Can you get there any quicker than 8 hour drive from Marrakech?
Amanda Mouttaki says
You can fly from Marrakech to Zagora but the flight isn’t everyday. Aside from this it’s just the long drive. You can also do glamping in the Agafay desert which is 45 min outside Marrakech but isn’t the rolling sand dune kind of desert.
Anonymous says
Thank you so much.
Appreciate your help and again I think your post is great for helping people understand what not to do in another country.
To respect the Country’s Culture… we are guests of their Country and should respect their Culture.
Thank you!!!
Pam says
Thank you soo much for your response.
Yes, I read about Agafay, but I think we would want to experience the true Sahara Desert.
Agafay is a Great option if you do not have the time to get to the Sahara. Thank you sooo much!
Christopher D says
Question, my clients are headed to Morocco for a year or so. Is wearing fur frowned upon in society? Thanks.
Amanda Mouttaki says
I don’t think most people care to be honest. You’ll see loads of fake fur for sure.
Paula says
Hi! This is an amazing site! Thank you so much for all the information! I was wondering if you could help me with one more question: is it safe to travel around Morocco if we are just two women? I’m planning a trip with my mom, we are 47 and 28, and it will be just us two. Tank you very much!
Amanda Mouttaki says
Yes, but just as with anywhere be aware of your surroundings. You might want to take a read of this post too – https://marocmama.com/10-tips-women-visiting-morocco/
Mully says
Such an amazing useful set of information…. My husband, myself and son are going end of June to marrakech for 7 days and at first with reading info I was oh my gosh what have we done….. After watching you tube and reading this…. Collecting information… I am embracing the fact its a different culture and rules are rules and too be respectful of that…. Unlike alot of brits!!! So huge thank you for this guide…. I am so excited now x
J Burchmann says
My partner and I wish to holiday in Morocco but we are not married. Would this be a problem . We want to stay in a B&B for 8 weeks .
Amanda Mouttaki says
Not a problem. The unmarried part usually just applies when one of the partners is Moroccan.
Claudia says
My husband lives in Morocco and I’m in USA. Do we need proof of marriage to stay in a hotel
Amanda Mouttaki says
Yes you do.
Jo says
I stayed in a 5 star hotel with a Moroccan guy I met on Tinder. We spent 4 nights together. No one in the hotel said anything but I could tell tongues were wagging.
Amanda Mouttaki says
The key to that statement being a 5 star, likely international hotel, they likely wouldn’t say something to a client that was paying premium prices for a hotel, and they have the luxury of being able to afford a fine by the government for not having the appropriate papers for guests. I’m also guessing the guy wasn’t registered as a guest.
Jennifer Ginsburg says
I am so excited to be planning my second trip to this wondrous country. My first trip was a women only tour with male driver and female guide. Except for being to busy without enough down time it was perfect. OK except for the two women (the blondes) who dressed inappropriately and bargained rudely and wanted martinis. This time my husband and another couple will be traveling. I love your posts and apologize for the long lead in. My question. In hotels the are sometimes pools. Would a conservative one piece suit and coverup robe be OK? I’d feel plain silly in a hijab suit. But after the Blondes I want to be especially careful.
Amanda Mouttaki says
You can wear whatever you’d like in a hotel pool. Bikinis and all 😉
Julie says
I was in a hotel in the south run by a French couple. They actually threw a lady out of the pool who WS wearing a fully covered up swimsuit and said it wasn’t allowed. It was a bit shocking especially in a Muslim country.
Amanda Mouttaki says
Yes actually that happens in quite a few places. They claim it’s “sanitary” reasons but I’ve never believed that.
Susan says
Great article, Amanda! Very useful. Thanks!
Patrice says
I read Morocco is primarily a cash society. Is this correct. Should I bring a sufficient amount of dirhams with me??
Thank you
Amanda Mouttaki says
This is true – it’s actually really hard to get dirham outside the country (Morocco is a closed currency) but if you bring cash from home and/or use your ATM card it’s easy to get local currency.
Anonymous says
Apologies for butting in but can I just say if you take cash make sure the notes are in perfect condition with no rips or tears and no added writing on them. The banks are bureau de change will not accept them if they are ripped or have writing on them. Here in Uk banks are always wrong on notes. On my first trip I had to borrow money from my sister as a lot of my notes were not accepted. Also as Amanda says ATM’s are readily avail and safe to use
Steeve says
Also know that you’ll get 100 and 200 notes from a cash machine. That’s big money for small purchases. Getting change in a lot of places will be hit or miss. Going to a gas station is usually a sure fire place to get as many 20 Dirham notes and coins you want. They usually have plenty if you are willing to wait a few minutes for the manager. It will also help to learn how to ask to change the notes in Darija.
It was never easy getting the constant supply of small money we needed at work from our banks. Going to the Afriquia or Total station totally changed that situation.
Fiona says
I want to ask, is it true that I will need some sort of a licence (or will my male moroccan friend) to walk with each other in public and eat together at cafes/ restaurants? We are friends. I’m going to Morocco next week but I have just been informed about this by my Moroccan friend and I am so shocked to know that we need a licence just as friends walking together? I planned to take the train and bus from city to city with this friend, so does that mean he cannot accompany me travelling too?
Amanda Mouttaki says
This might be too late. But yes you can get a paper from the local police station saying this. It’s 50/50 that someone would stop you/him and say anything but it’s always a good idea to have just in case. The law is there to protect tourists from people who would take advantage and act as a “fake guide”.
Ornagh says
This is so helpful, insightful and clever. Thanks.
Dave says
here is a challenging question…
i am now in casablanca working remotely but when i call the US i do not want my customers to know i am located outside of the US. i do consulting and talk a lot on the phone. I am searching for a way to call the US from Morocco and block my number selectivly, like you can do in the us (*67 prefix). do any of the telephone companies have this feature?
any other advice you can offer about calling/receiving calls from US would be great. Like getting a US based number and having it forwarded to Morocco… Unfortunately, Skype doesnt offer services in Morroco for a local calling number which would have been ideal. Are there any other providers you know of?
Amanda Mouttaki says
Google Voice has the option to have a US Number or a redirect. I’ve used it in the past.
Tania says
Thank you for this! Super helpful. I plan to be in Marrakech for the first time this January and despite having lived in Malaysia my entire life I’m still worried about religious customs in Morocco. I was raised a Muslim – do you happen to know if I’ll be treated differently if they found out, as I’ll be traveling alone? In case they expect me to behave a certain way or travel with company or a husband. There are still cultural differences between Islamic countries and I have to say, we are a little more relaxed in Malaysia (unless you’re outside the city) but that’s largely because it’s only 60% Muslim.
Amanda Mouttaki says
No I wouldn’t worry at all. Morocco is very open minded and there are many, many women who travel alone here every year. Have a great time!
Steeve says
Apa kabar?
My SE Asian friends and family have done just fine in Morocco except for the food (tidak ada nasi, orang itu tidak suka makanan pedas…). The Malaysian and Indonesian embassies have worked together in the past on student issues, and depending on where you go you may find a small community of Indonesians and Malaysians (mostly students). When I first arrived in Tetouan there were 16, but last year there were only 5-6.
Not many women go to mosque in Morocco, and all the mosques (except maybe Hassan II in Casablanca) are closed outside of prayer times. Going from Indonesia where mosques are always open to Morocco where they aren’t was weird for me.
Not many single girls (young women) in the north dare to travel unaccompanied by a male family member, and gender mixing is much less common there than in Malaysia. However, I expect that you’ll be just fine there. By the way, the director of the Banyan Tree resort in the north near Ceuta is a friend of my wife, and she’s a Malaysian woman!
Diane says
Great list! I’ve only been to Morocco once so definitely not an expert. I have to say about #4, I wasn’t annoyed at all but rather surprised. Our riad was right next to a mosque and I didn’t know anything about the very early prayer. It scared me until I figured out what it was. Just totally unexpected, so that’s a good one to make tourists aware of. Also, I had no idea that drones were illegal!
Amanda Mouttaki says
Yes it can be a surprise – it’s always interesting to me to hear stories of people who ask their riad hosts to “ask the mosque to turn down the volume.” Makes me wonder if they do the same for church bells!
Nabil says
It’s ridiculous request, some tourists are stupid unfortunately to ask for such things
Amanda Mouttaki says
I think stupid is a bit harsh but perhaps just not well informed.