
This month I’m participating in the BlogHer Book Club and the selection was The Underside of Joy by Sere Prince Halverson. As I’ve shared a few times on here I am an avid reader. That being said this is not the type of book I normally pick up. I like sticking to old favorites like historical fiction, world literature and some political novels. There was however something about the preview of this book that made me intrigued. Of course initially I’m sure it was the mother angle. Second, the loss of a love. Though I can’t fathom losing someone so close to me (like a husband) the emotional connection Ella is described as having with Joe (the two main characters) really hit home. So when the advance copy of the book showed up I was excited to dig in and see where the story took me.
In one evening I read half of the book, promising myself just one more chapter but as each unfolded I kept making and breaking the promise. Then I got to the hard part. I don’t want to give it away because I want you to read this book, but it involves the custody of Joe’s two children. I put it down. I left it on my nightstand for weeks. I don’t think I wanted to wade into those waters. However, I had to finish it so I dutifully picked it back up this weekend and fought my way through the rest. It was emotionally crushing to me and I cried through many pages. When I was finished with the book there was still a heavy weight on my chest.
I can say aside from the apparent questions that are raised in this book there was another theme that stuck out to me. Having married into another culture and living in a certain way I felt that many of the struggles Ella goes through can be correlated to raising children between two cultures. Both parents have a strong sense of the proper protocol for child-rearing and also have bias’ to the right and wrong things that should be done. Fighting, quarreling, and even removal of the child from the “harmful” practices of the other culture can occur. Then, more often than not something happens to trigger a wake-up call. Both parties come to realize that really no one is right and the only one losing in the bickering is the child. They overcome the prejudices and bias to make a better choice that will have a positive affect on their child.
I don’t want to give away the plot or the entire story because this really is a good read. If you’re a mom (or just a person with feelings!), if you like books set in fantastic places, or you’re a foodie like me, you’ll find something in this book that you can relate to. Pick up this book – you can get it for your Kindle right now! Then come and join me on the BlogHer discussion board where there will be great discussions going all month about this book. You can also find an excerpt from the book and an interview with the author here. I’ll see you there (remember my handle is marocmama – watch for me!)
I was compensated for participating in this review and received and advance copy of this book. The opinions expressed in this review are all my own. As always I strive to be open and transparent with my readers and do not endorse books or products I do not believe in.
Read MoreThis is truly a Moroccan cookbook love year. First it was Paula Wolfert’s Food of Morocco and then Mourad: New Moroccan from Mourad Lahlou. There have been many articles like this one, and this one, and this one, in the press about the way that each of these authors present Moroccan food. It boils down to this. Paula presents authentic traditional food, the food that I’m going to find on my mother in law’s table and the only way MarocBaba thinks of the food of his homeland. Mourad presents Moroccan food the way I dream it could be.
Mr. Lahlou is a Marrakech native (added plus) and his book is full of images from all over the country but especially Marrakech, a fact that I adore. (If you check out page 248 the olive stall he’s buying from is the same one I bought my olives at during our last trip. The gentlemen operating the booth was a sweetheart and held my 5 kilos of olives while we finished shopping!) He owns and is head chef of Aziza in San Francisco and took on Cat Cora in 2009 in Battle Redfish on Iron Chef America - winning by the largest margin in the shows’ history! His cookbook embraces the technique he employs at his restaurant. Lahlou is a self-trained chef and originally began cooking Moroccan food as a way to combat homesickness when he was an economics student in the US.
The firs thing that struck me about this cookbook is its structure. The first one-hundred pages of the book tell his story and give you the basics. It includes text about and instructions on how to make staples such as spices, how make preserved lemons, harissa, and couscous. These aren’t full blown meals but a how-to to begin preparing your kitchen to make the items that will come later. As someone who cooks Moroccan food very regularly I skimmed this section but have 99% of these things on hand already. But, for someone who wants to stock their kitchen with all of these items, and doesn’t want to pay premium price for them pre-made, this section will be a lifesaver!
Things then progress to the bigger and more complex recipes. I love the cheeky chapter titles like; “Back to the Beldi,” “Sides, Front, and Center,” and “Tea and Me.” Mourad covers all of the bases from appetizers to really lovely desserts. But they are not traditional Moroccan recipes and in many cases I think they are even better. He writes from where he is (which is California) the ingredients available are of course different than they are in Morocco. Instead of trying to substitute or hunt down the actual ingredient, or grow it himself he re-creates dishes with what is available. Something I’d be remiss not to note is that there is very little frying of food in this book, making the dishes in my opinion healthier than a lot of traditional Moroccan fare.
Above all what I can appreciate about this cookbook – I can make anything and eat it. There’s no pork in any of the ingredients. Early in the book he does state that he cooks with wine making sure to cook off the alcohol. I’ve heard debates about whether or not all alcohol is cooked off when heated. So you’ll have to be your own judge on that issue. Just to further in debt me to him, on page 267 there’s a recipe for lamb bacon! He writes “Not serving pork at the restaurant but wanting to experience the magic of bacon everyone’s talking about …” let me sing his praises for giving us a bacon recipe! Here are a few more of the recipes that caught my eye.
Eid Mubarak! I’ve had a really busy weekend and I’m sure that many of you have as well. I wanted to just share a really quick idea that I had today. Because it’s a holiday I did a lot of cooking and a lot of sharing of foods I have made. Inevitable someone always asks for the recipe for something. Typically we’re not somewhere that there is a paper and pen nearby. However I always have my phone. Here’s where my great idea came in.
A few weeks ago I wrote about Touchnote, a smartphone (or desktop) app that let’s you send postcards using your own pictures. So instead of trying to find a scrap of paper and write down a recipe I decided to snap a picture and upload it to Touchnote.
I then make a note on the message page to insert the recipe, move forward to the final screen to type in the person’s address. Then I can take the time to add in the recipe as I have time and send. In a few days they will receive the postcard in the mail, the image serving as a reminder of the dish and the recipe complete on the back.
This is a fun way to share recipes with those who have enjoyed items you have made. The more that I play with Touchnote the more ways I’m finding to use it besides just sending a simple picture!
Find out more about Touchnote in these ways;
What do you think about this idea? Wouldn’t it be fun to find a new recipe in your mail instead of a bill?
Disclosure: I was selected for this campaign by American Muslim Mom Media Network, and received products free of charge. The thoughts and opinions of this campaign as always are my own.
Read MoreRamadan is about a week away and I’ve been busy starting to cook and freeze some of our staples for the month. One thing that I always struggle with is eating breakfast. During this month Muslims do not eat or drink from sunrise to sunset, and with this holiday falling in the summer that length of time is even longer. I am so guilty of not waking up to eat breakfast or suhoor. Call me lazy but when I know I have to get up early and get to work all day I just can’t get myself to eat breakfast at 3am. I’m really not much of a breakfast person anytime but especially not during this month.
I had the opportunity to try out Seneca Farms Fruit & Oatmeal this week and am really excited that this might make my upcoming month (and life!) easier. On Monday I was running out to work late after being gone to Midwest Mom’s Media in Chicago all weekend. I grabbed a container of oatmeal, tossed it in my purse, and crossed my fingers that I might get the chance to eat it. By 10:30 my day had slowed down enough that I was able to heat it up and try it out. I was very surprised.
I guess that I’m not alone in my non-breakfast eating habits. Did you know that;
*Results of 2011 Children’s Nutrition Survey, conducted by Harris Interactive for Seneca Farms
I love instant oatmeal but hate the kind that has dehydrated/freeze-dried/mayeitsnotevenfruit in it. The flavor I tried was Vanilla Peach and it actually had real pieces of fruit in it. It tasted great! You don’t need any water or milk to mix up with the oatmeal just microwave for 45 seconds. It kept me full for several hours. I was also happy with the apple cinnamon flavor. Cinnamon is so hit or miss as an ingredient but this was a hit.
Apple Cinnamon and Vanilla Peach are the two available flavors right now. Seneca Farms Oatmeal & Fruit can be found nationally at Walmart and at a wide variety of retail grocery stores. You can see a detailed store list here. Seneca Farms plans to expand its flavors later this year with Oatmeal & Fruit Cranberry Apple, and Oatmeal – Maple & Brown Sugar. I can assure you when maple and brown sugar comes out I’ll be buying tons of cups every week.
Please note this giveaway is closed.
Onto the good news! One reader will win a 2-pack of each flavor of Seneca Farms Oatmeal & Fruit (that’s 4 cups two of each flavor). I’m using a new system for giveaways called Rafflecopter. I think it’s easier for everyone. Good luck and let me know what you think of the entry system.
This review was made possible by Mom Spark Media. Thoughts are my own. I was provided free products in exchange for this review. This contest is open to US residents only.
Read MoreIt’s now been a few weeks since I’ve gotten back from Eat, Write, Retreat and I’ve had lots of time to play around with all my new goodies from the conference. While I really love everything that we were given these are the ones that really stuck out and I’ve either eaten all that I have or have been using all the time.
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1. OXO Professional 14 Piece Knife Set: The raffle giveaway of big products on Saturday night had me winning a mandolin, but I already had a mandolin. Kimmy of Lighter and Local won this knife set. As we talked she had wanted the mandolin and I really wanted the knives, so like all good girls we traded. I was so happy! I have used these knives everyday and love how easy they are to handle and how well they cut. To be honest I probably wouldn’t have even looked at these in a store, and I would have missed out on a great product. I don’t want you to do the same thing – if you’re looking for a cost-friendly, but professional level knife set, try them out.
2. Calphalon 12″ Omelette Pan: When I packed my suitcase to come home from DC I was a little worried that I would end up having to carry this on the airplane with me. I wonder what TSA would have thought of that. I used this pan to make a chicken stir-fry and was really surprised at how well it heated all around. My burners are not 12″ big and usually most pans stay cold on the outer edges. This one heated evenly all the way around. I know some people don’t like non-stick pans but for me it’s almost a necessity. Also did you know Calphalon offers a 10 year warranty on their pans?
3. Honey Ridge Lemon Honey Creme: I have a love-hate relationship with honey. I love this honey creme. I love lemons so that may be why. The lemon doesn’t overpower the honey but the flavor is really wonderful. I’ve been eating this by itself on bread. I think it would really be lovely in a dessert as well. There are other flavors like apricot, blackberry, clover, cranberry and raspberry. If you can’t pick just one there’s a sampler box too!
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4. OXO stainless steel mixing bowl: Not everyone got one of these. Sunday there were two tables of “extras” out on the table and we were free to take what we wanted. This bowl actually has two other smaller bowls that go with it. I knew I needed a new large mixing bowl so I took this one but left the other two for someone else. (See I am nice!) I wish that I would have taken all three but I’m sure the new owner of the smaller bowls loves them too. I love this bowl because it’s heavier than a metal bowl but light enough to easily handle. It also has a non-skid bottom so it stays put. Love that! I adore my 5 qt bowl but there are smaller sizes too. Check out the nesting set here.

5. Resealable containers from Lindsay Olives: This is the best idea I’ve run across in a long time. For years I have been wishing that black olives, actually all olives came in a resealable container. We eat a lot of olives but I hardly ever use a full can at a time. It’s a pain to find a container to keep the rest of them and they always end up pushed in the back of my fridge. When I saw that Lindsay now has resealable containers I was thrilled. Same great olives, now you can save some for later.

6. Peanut Butter Goo Goo Clusters: My apologies if you read earlier, apparently I can’t count and forgot to add this one! Iremember when our family would drive to Florida for vacation and stop in Georgia for a break. Goo Goo Clusters were abundant and I loved them! When I found peanut butter Goo Goo’s in my Eat, Write, Retreat bag I knew they would be great. I love Reeses’ and I would take a Goo Goo over a peanut butter cup any day!
This is in no way an exhaustive list. I loved a lot more of the products, these are just six that really jumped out at me right away and I find myself using again and again. Which one is most interesting to you?
**I was not compensated in anyway for this post nor are there any affiliate links embedded. I was given these items as a part of the Eat, Write, Retreat conference in May 2011. All opinions are my own.
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Who knew there was more on top of Capitol Hill than political scum? I spent a little more than a year calling the Hill home, tromping all around the area, and eating in dozens of restaurants. However, only 15 minutes into our tour with DC Metro Food Tours during Eat, Write, Retreat I realized there was a lot I didn’t know about Capitol Hill. I’d totally be lying if I said great company wasn’t a major reason I loved this portion of the weekend. I had such amazing conversations and bonding time with several ladies during this experience. I took pictures, lots of them in fact but they won’t come off of my camera. I’m so upset!! Fear not, Olga from Mango, Tomato and one of those special ladies I mentioned above said I can share her pictures! You can find all of them on her non-food blog, My World.

This is one of the oldest residential homes on Capitol Hill. There’s a long story that goes with it and it’s a really great story..I’ve just forgotten all of it. I do remember however that the original owner of this house was rumored to have a very expansive wine collection. The gentlemen got into some trouble and ended up fleeing the house (and possibly the country – sorry fuzzy details) and instead of leaving his wine collection he dynamited the entrance to the cellar. No one has ever found the wine. Our guides did tell us that the house will be undergoing renovations to bring it back to it’s original look soon.

Another very cool stop was to the Navy Annex area. I had NEVER been to this part of the Hill and now I’m sort of upset that I hadn’t been. This house is the oldest federal building in continual residence. I think it would be a pretty awesome place to call home.

I have actually been in this church when we were looking at planning for an event. Interesting historical tidbit, the family of one of John Wilkes Booths’ helpers attended this church. After news reached the city that Pres. Lincoln had been shot hundreds of people gathered here in vigil for the president. The family was too ashamed to come again. Our guide also told us that sometimes they toured the inside, Olga and I decided they vetoed this time because we were with.

The most interesting lesson was about alley houses. Long ago these areas were the slums and in the not so distant past they served as shooting galleries for addicts as well as other unsavory behavior. Not so anymore. Residents are purchasing these homes and re-vamping them. Honestly taking a walk down this alley to these little houses was like you weren’t even in DC anymore!!! I loved it – I would totally live in an alley house in 2.5 seconds. Check out this piece by the Washington Post for more about these homes.
…But what where’s the Eats?? Here they come!
Credit: Allie Mak – livelaugheat.com
I was a little scared to eat here. The first thing I think of when I hear soul food is – pork. I was pretty sure this stop was going to mean no food for me. Not true! Levi’s makes their veggies without pork – making it vegetarian friendly, or halal friendly in my case! I did have to forego the pulled pork sandwich but got to eat everything else.

Las Placitas is a Salvadorian restaurant serving all kinds of yummy Salvadorian and Mexican dishes. The meat here is to die for. During our vacation to Florida this year we ate at a Cuban restaurant. This beef tasted very similar to the Cuban version. As totally yummy as that bread looks I didn’t get to try it – they make it with lard, I was sad.
The other stop was to an Indo/Pakistani restaurant. I had a really gorgeous picture of the muligatawney soup that is now lost in cyber space somewhere. Trust me it was good.
Overall DC Metro Food Tours is a great company. The tour guides are witty and loaded with really interesting trivia. The food is fabulous. I wish I would have known about this company when we lived in DC because I would have a) taken every visitor I had on a tour and b) made it a point to take every tour myself! Next time I’m back in the city I’m booking another tour. My next choice would be a tour of U Street. Which neighborhood would interest you?
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